Episode 59: Do You Feel Like an Outsider?

Sonia C. and Sabrina are currently in Paris while Sonia T. is in Spain. Sonia T. feels like Spain calls to her messy spirit more than France’s refined spirit right now! It was hard living in France because everyone around her is so clean and neat, and she’d often walk around with an ink-stained outfit. Sonia T. always felt like she stood out like a sore thumb and didn’t fit in, which goes nicely into this week’s theme!    This week’s theme is about: How to Belong as an Outsider.   Highlights: You don’t want to fit in, but you do want to belong. [3:15] Sonia C. tried to fit in by dressing French. It sounds funny, but she was re-discovering herself after finding herself single. [7:45] By the way, fitting in will never come with the exterior outfit. [7:55] When you feel better in your outfit, you have a better time, but you have to find yourself first before wearing the clothes. [11:45] Who would you be if you dressed the way your spirited wanted you to dress? [15:20] Your ego is too fragile and insecure to feel like it belongs. [24:30]  Tool of the week. [30:20] Question of the week. [39:50]   Our ego brains always tells us we don’t fit in, we don’t belong, especially if you’re living in a foriegn culture different to yours. However, this is a lie. Our spirit will always find ways to ‘be’, no matter where you are. What’s the difference between fitting in vs. belonging? Sonia C. believes it has to do with giving up who you are to fit in vs. knowing who you are and showing up as an empowered self.    Sonia T. can relate. As someone who has never fit in well, she’s found different ways to find belonging. Sonia T. learned a powerful lesson from her mother and carries this belief with her everywhere she goes: Instead of trying to relate to someone on hobbies and interests, she relates to them on a soul, on a human level, and through that she is able to find deep belonging.    Question of the Week: My mother is a huge farbissina. What can I do?    Tool of the Week: Get some assless chaps and connect in some way, whether it be music, nature, or little notes to yourself to get out of your ego.   Continue on Your Journey: More Sonia Choquette at www.soniachoquette.com More Sonia Tully at www.soniatully.com Connect with Sabrina at www.sabrinatully.com Join Sonia Choquette’s Vibe Tribe Follow Sonia Choquette on Instagram Follow Sonia Tully on Instagram Buy Sonia and Sabrina’s Book You Are Amazing Ask your intuitive questions at: itsallrelatedpodcastquestions@gmail.com Masterclass: You’re Glorious Life by Sonia Tully