101. Making Your Self-Relationship a Priority with Mike Millner

A vulnerable state of wanting to lose weight can make diet culture messaging enticing, and we are more likely to follow whatever diet plan promises to deliver the results we want. It is important to realize that no single meal plan or approach will work for every individual. No matter what diet culture myths are being propagated, there is no quick fix, and committing to your well-being in the long term will lead to a much happier existence. Nutrition coach Mike Millner shares his compelling story about growing up as an athlete and identifying as one throughout his life until he became overweight in college and began an obsession with dieting and exercise. Mike developed orthorexia, which is an obsession with eating "clean" to the point that it can harm your health and well-being. Like many who suffer through this, Mike thought that if he were lean enough, he would be happy, but the lifestyle he adopted actually distanced him more from the activities that made him happy. While this restrictive way of life is highly addictive, Mike was able to lift himself out of it and treat his body with more love. In this episode, Mike discusses how he changed his behavior, examined all the beliefs he’d held about himself since childhood, and dug deep to pinpoint the reason for his desire to lose weight. Rather than viewing his past "failures" negatively, he viewed them as learning experiences and feedback about what works for him, what doesn't, and the tendencies he had toward food and exercise. Many people will relate to Mike's story because it demonstrates the importance of finding out what works for you individually and being aware that you have a forever relationship with yourself. As Mike's story shows, adopting a growth mindset and committing to your well-being long-term can make feeling good in your body a reality for years to come. Episode Quote: “What do you believe about yourself? What is your internal operating system? We all have this ‘I am’ statement that we’ve developed from childhood that tells us what we think about ourselves, and oftentimes we don’t even know where it came from.” - Mike Millner Connect with Mike: Instagram @coach_mike_millner Website: neurotypetraining.com Connect with Molly: LOTS of EXCITING stuff going on over at mollycarmel.com - but most importantly, there are a few slots left to CHANGE YOUR LIFE in the ALL IN Intensive Coaching Program beginning February 5th - sign up for a 15 minute strategy session with me :) Take a look at the AMAZING OWN YOUR WORTH EXPERIENCE I'm participating in on MARCH 31st - ownyourworthexperience.com There are also LOTS of other offerings - Fireside chats, intenSati classes all on mollycarmel.com - including February's LOVING YOURSELF Fireside on Feb 15! You can also purchase the Breaking Up with Sugar course here: mollycarmel.com/buws Join my mailing list for a free mini masterclass: mollycarmel.com/minimasterclass Become a part of the Breaking Up with Sugar FB Group: facebook.com/groups/buwsbook Come hang with me on social media!! IG (I love a DM!): @mollycarmel YouTube: Molly Carmel Tiktok: @realmollycarmel Facebook: facebook.com/mollycarmel.buws