162. Breasts, Vulvas and Hips: How Beauty Standards Impact Your Dating Journey with Chanci Dawn

“And if we don't feel like we have a voice with each other, to be able to express these insecurities, and to be able to, like, get curious and love ourselves and love each other through it through these types of conversations. It keeps us caged.”“So I want to talk about everything, everything that we struggle with, and let's love with compassion ourselves through it.”“And you feel that in your heart, your heart's mind, ‘what is right for me,’ this is your soul speaking, ‘what is my definition of beauty?’ What is pleasurable to me? What is right for me? That is my soul.”“When we can start to wake up the senses, externally and internally. And really like go ‘Oh my goodness, body you are capable of so much feeling. And I get to experience the world and my life through these internal and external felt senses.’ That is a gift that your body alone gives you nothing else, you can't experience that without this body.”“ And when we're so focused on our external appearance…we do lose connection with what our body is actually here for and those internal felt senses is a whole other universe that we are not taught.”Featured on the show this week: Chanci Dawn.Chanci Dawn coaches, speaks and advocates for freedom and love. Freedom from the chaos of the diet culture and love, the deepest kind of love, for yourself, your body, and the gift of food.Chanci believes that when a woman makes peace with food and her body she is set free to focus her time, energy and brainpower on things that truly matter - making this work a powerful form of activism!To support women on their own journey to freedom Chanci currently offers 1-1 and group coaching as well as a podcast titled "It Tastes Like Freedom". In her downtime, you can find Chanci in the forest or on the boat exploring the beautiful West Coast shoreline of her home - Vancouver Island Canada.Chanci’s WebsiteChanci’s InstagramChanci’s FacebookWild Feminine Embodiment Playlist Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you ❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who isCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core