138. Dating after Divorce with Michelle Vasquez

“I became such a full time mom and homemaker that I had forgotten my favorite food or color." "When women don't realize how much they lose themselves, when they start putting their marriage, their kids, their home first…they really let go of their identity.”“I think the biggest mistake that I made and that I see a lot of women that come to me make, is they think that once we clear this up, that's it, you know, and we're done. And I think if we can be more loving and compassionate with ourselves we’ll realize that this is a daily work.”“You know, if we can encourage women to stop judging themselves, stop taking the blame. You could have been the most horrible wife. But guess what? Amazing wives also get divorce.”Featured on the Show: Michelle Vasquez.Michelle Vasquez is a Goal & Life Coach for divorced women. She works with her clients to set goals & the clear path to overcome obstacles and ensure that they achieve their goals.When her marriage of 11 years ended, and she had three boys under the ages of eight to raise, she felt like her whole life crumbled right in front of her and she couldn't do anything to keep it together, change it, or go back to how things were. Fast forward 11 years, she got remarried to a wonderful man and has been remarried for seven years.From all the struggles and victories, Michelle believes that the fact that she and her ex-husband have always been able to have a great co-parenting relationship has been the biggest victory. Michelle’s WebsiteMichelle’s InstagramMichelle’s FacebookMichelle’s PodcastDiscover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for youGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now