139. Remarriage after codependency and partner addiction with Karilyn Ivers

“I was a huge people pleaser. I was very codependent. I didn't know that. At the time, I didn't know what that was.”“The funny thing is, when you let go of all that control, then sometimes you're pleasantly surprised about getting the exact thing you would have wanted.”“So I was having all these experiences with other people. And I was being treated in a much different way, like I was being respected. And people were asking about my boundaries and very respectful of my boundaries. And that was very much a contrast to what I had known for the last 10 years.”“So that was a green flag for me that he liked that. So he loved all the questions I had. He really liked that process. And through that we found out like, we do want the same things.”“Even though it feels like things happened so fast this year, it's because I've been working at this for four years consciously, but many years before that.”Featured on the show: Karilyn Ivers.Karilyn Ivers is an expert at learning from her failures. As a certified life coach, she helps her clients do the same.Karilyn’s InstagramKarilyn’s PodcastKarilyn’s WebsiteDiscover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you ❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who isCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating processGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now