#247 - Lets Talk About Sex with Eleanor Hadley

Let’s talk about SEX!If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ll know I don’t shy away from many topics, including anything and everything to talk about sex.If you don't want to hear about all things sex, this one is not for you. But if you’re interested and want to learn, we’ve got Eleanor Hadley @eleanorhadley - sex educator, writer, and speaker - on this episode, helping us overcome the shame or guilt we might feel when it comes to sex.Happy listening I hope you find this podcast helpful and don't forget to take a screenshot of the episode and share it on Instagram stories and tag me at @kittyblomfield. Each month I choose someone who has shared and they get a tub of Saturée Premium Collagen valued at $79.If you loved this episode please help us get the word out to more women and leave a written review and a 5-star rating. Leave a review and rating on iTunes HERE.You can review on Spotify HERE.LINKSJoin our Rebuild Your Metabolism ChallengeLearn more about our 16-week Winatlife Accelerator Program: Book your callSaturée productsFollow:Kitty Blomfield @kittyblomfieldEleanor Hadley @eleanorhadleySHOW NOTES00:21 - Eleanor's background01:50 - Not being able to explore about sex05:33 - Some of the roadblocks that stop women from having good sex08:53 - Spontaneous vs responsive desire10:38 - Mismatched desire12:10 - Working on each other's desire types16:20 - Pleasure language17:00 - Different styles19:18 - Low sex drive and not knowing what turn them on20:33 - Madonna-whore academy23:22 - Performative femininity vs embodied26:49 - Unrealistic porn performance28:49 - Audio erotica29:43 - Watching too much porn30:45 - Her advice to women who aren't comfortable with their own body32:06 - Sensual movement33:49 - Couples who are not having sex36:57 - Going through different seasons38:50 - New relationship energy43:14 - Marriage and monogamy48:59 - Social condition and programing49:47 - Non-monogamy50:30 - Polyamorous54:54 - Jealousy56:02 - Relationship and romantic connection59:17 - Couples who want to explore different fantasies01:01:22 - Threesomes and being a "unicorn"01:07:15 - Feeld app01:08:19 - Where to start01:10:00 - Self-pleasure01:11:40 - Trying something different01:12:29 - Orgasm and penetration01:16:35 - Foreplay01:20:50 - Communicating with your partnerAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands