Ian Martin Allison talks dealing with the haters, valuing experiences over money, the power of vulnerability and imposter syndrome.

In the first episode of podcast, Host Leyla meets Ian - an enthusiastic, versatile electric bass player who has worked as a session and touring musician with a diverse group of artists including Eric Hutchinson, Gavin Degraw, John Legend, Cory Wong, Dessa, Jeremy Messersmith, Soul Asylum, Ondara, and Haley.He has also managed to make a name for himself in the online space and is well-known for making and sharing videos online as a content creator and the CXO of ScottsBassLessons.com.Chapters:0:00 Introduction1:00 - Why did Leyla want to start a podcast? / Introversion and the ability to present4:30 - The story behind Ian’s first email address - bassesaretotallyawesome!7:25 - Why bass? - how Ian’s questionable basketball career led him to learn bass.10:59 - Leyla tells her why bass story12:50 - Ian’s kids’ interest in music14:48 - How both Ian, and his wife Emily, choose to parent. - normalising the haters.18:39 - A more in-depth conversation about hate. Bitter old men and turning the tables.26:20 - Why Leyla is okay with being vulnerable and showing her outtakes on social media.31:10 - Being paid to play on other people's songs - why Ian puts experiences and his love for music before the need to get paid.39:30 - Pedals and Ian's love for sound.43:05 - How Ian overcame his embarrassment in his interests - how his vulnerability became his voice.47:43 - Encouraging his audience to challenge rules / Why Leyla thinks Ian’s message perfectly aligns with the soundtrack to success podcast.51:00 - Ian’s approach to his Instagram comments - Scott’s ‘the digital city.’54:02 - Does Ian experience Imposter syndrome? 58:08 -Your love for music is more important than vocabulary.59:20 Imposter syndrome is completely normal and necessary / narcissism1:03:00 - What does Leyla do to alleviate imposter syndrome & anxiety?1:04:29 - Why its totally OK to fail / Ian gets fired from a session at 261:10:09 - What is Ian’s Soundtrack to Success?