E660 Ask Nick - I’m Dating A Married Man

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss the various intentions behind buying someone flowers, Nick’s tattoo collection, and his new pup. We also read a submission from someone who’s not sure whether to shoot his shot with his co-worker. We then get to our callers.  Our first caller has been dating a married man, and isn’t sure how to stop. He hasn’t asked his wife for a separation, and she isn’t aware of the affair, but our caller is still holding out hope the relationship can make it. Our second caller might be overthinking her current situationship. She hasn’t dated in a while, and recently moved to a new city, where she’s been talking to someone, and can’t tell whether she’s holding onto the relationship because she’s lonely, or if it’s time to give it up. Our final caller recently moved in with her boyfriend and his newborn, and is struggling to make the relationship work. The mother of the child is making matters difficult for our caller, but her boyfriend doesn't seem to understand she’s struggling as well.  “Your time is not infinite. You’re either going to invest in him, or you’re going to invest in yourself.”  Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.  Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store and https://www.onamp.com for Android listeners. To Order Nick’s Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line!  To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp - Make your brain your friend, with BetterHelp. Visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Grammarly - You’ll be amazed at what you can do with Grammarly. Go to https://www.Grammarly.com/PODCAST to download for FREE today. Article - Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit article.com/viall and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell @genevievegoodman