30: Your Plant Is Dead

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the biggest mistake people make with their relationship development method, mainly from misinterpreting it to mean that they should put up with things or just let things go. This comes from a deeply wired demand relationship thinking which only results in things staying the same or getting worse.Paul and Stacey discovered that their students didn’t quite understand that implementing the relationship development tools and strategies is supposed to result in one’s partner changing in response to how they show up differently, and so this episode is geared towards teaching us how to implement relationship development properly, so we can get to experience the changes that we really want to see in our relationships.Key Points Discussed:The huge misconception of what relationship development is (00:45)Creating our outcomes with the way we show up (03:49)Doing things that will actually generate the response that we totally want (06:01)Be the one to start nurturing that plant (11:54)Demand relationship thinking can run really deep (14:47)Following the relationship development yellow brick road (16:15)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!