The Avoidant Attachment Style & P*rn Use In Relationships | Can This Be Fixed

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Zeo dive into common fears and challenges in relationships, particularly for individuals with dismissive or fearful-avoidant attachment styles. They explore the emotions and thoughts behind major relationship steps like moving in together and answer listener questions from Reddit and YouTube. Topics include understanding the avoidant mindset, how attachment styles influence cheating, and navigating difficult conversations around sensitive topics like pornography. Tune in for insights, practical advice, and personal stories on how to cultivate secure and healthy relationships.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:34 - Moving in With a Partner
04:21 - DAs Need Time Alone
07:27 - DAs and Co-Regulation
09:14 - Living With Your Partner: DA Stages
11:51 - Shame and Acceptance
13:21 - FAs Fears in Relationships
17:26 - Assuming Childhood Experiences into Adulthood
21:02 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass
21:54 - DAs / FAs and Cheating
23:07 - Mike’s Response
26:02 - Why They Cheat
27:04 - DAs: Talk to Your Partner
31:43 - Meeting Your Needs
36:32 - Routines to Stay Connected
40:27 - Hello Fresh
41:54 - Indeed
43:46 - Question
44:16 - Mike’s Response
47:55 - Thais’ Response
53:26 - Find the Root Cause
56:05 - Talk to Your Partner (Mike)
57:40 - Talk to Your Partner (Thais)
59:09 - Find More Mike DiZio and PDS Content
59:46 - Conclusion 

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