S5E12 | Connie Baker LPC - Religious, Spiritual & Sexual Abuse Survivor & Trauma Recovery Specialist

Send me a DM! ILY All!Today I’m honored to introduce you all to: Spiritual, sexual and religious abuse survivor, educator, writer and author, podcast host and podcaster, Masters Level University Instructor, Licensed Professional Counselor, seminar teacher, conference speaker, clinical supervisor, writer, trauma recovery specialist, published author, trained life coach, private practice owner who works with her own clients, and an absolute inspiration: Connie BakerConnie’s was born into a family with conscientious parents that loved, supported, and cared about her. From the outside looking in, they looked like a typical ‘normal’ family, but lurking beneath the surface, there was a dark side that was hidden from plain sight. Her parents were rigid, strict, authoritarian, and very harsh with Connie’s discipline, and there was a demand for absolute compliance that Connie learned immediately as a young child to survive. She was supported by her parents as long as she was being good and the code word for her family was ‘responsibility’. These strict standards led to Connie became a very compliant and high-achieving child and adolescent back in the late 60s and 70s. She was raised in a country church in Southern Oregon that was full of unassuming, good-hearted people - and the church naturally reinforced all of the family themes that Connie had been conditioned to unconsciously accept at home. The theology and the culture of the church went along to strengthen the rigid, unbending demand for the same particular behavior patterns of perfection, compliance, obedience and responsibility her parents had always expected of her.The church Connie was attending during that time also happened to be pastored by someone who - three years earlier - had publicly confessed to having molested his own foster daughter. And when Connie was 16, this very pastor caught her alone on four different occasions and kissed her on the lips. Connie was silent about this violation for years - she knew the story of his foster daughter and knew no one would take her story seriously. This sexual violation helped further normalize this type of behavior and paved the way for more abuse down the road in Connie’s life at the hands of church clergy.CLICK HERE FOR 15% OFF YOUR RIFE ORDER: Rife Technology – Real Rife TechnologyCODE: 420CLICK HERE FOR FREE SHIPPING ON CZTL'S METHYLENE BLUE: Buy ultra high purity Methylene Blue – CZTL CODE: IMAGINATIONCONNECT WITH CONNIE: YouTube: Connie A. Baker - YouTube Website: Connie A. Baker, MA LPC - Religious Abuse Recovery Specialist. (connieabaker.com)Purchase book on Amazon: Traumatized by Religious Abuse: Courage, Hope and Freedom for Survivors - Kindle edition by Baker, Connie. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.FB Public Page: (4) FacebookFB Private Page: (4) Overcoming Religious Abuse Community with Connie A Baker MA LPC | FacebookIG: Connie Baker (@connie_a_baker) • Instagram photos and videosSupport the show