Vayigash ויגש 2022 Talking from the Heart

Usually when you want to influence somebody you first strategize with people, you analyze how to deal with the situation and the person and then you try to influence them in a very quiet, smooth way. However, when it’s painful and it hurts, you scream out, usually affecting the other person in a positive way who will help you, realizing that you’re talking from the heart and it’s not about money or fame, that is why Yehuda when he approached Yosef, he spoke very strong words because he was talking out of pain and therefore influenced the outcome to be positive. לקו״ש כ