#487 The Joy of Less: The Anticipation Trap

The Joy of Less: The Anticipation Trap Expectations are a double-edged sword. While they can motivate us to achieve our goals, they can also lead to disappointment and dissatisfaction if they are not met. Often, when our expectations are met, we merely feel like we've broken even, rather than exceeded anything. This is due to our tendency to adapt to new levels of pleasure or success, and the constant comparison we make to others.  However, by understanding the nature of expectations, setting realistic goals,and embracing a "good enough" mindset, we can free ourselves from the trap of constantly chasing after the next thing and find more contentment in the present moment. By managing expectations and focusing on the journey, not just the destination, we open ourselves up to the possibility of exceeding our own expectations and those of others, leading to even greater rewards and satisfaction. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 19 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: DrRobertPuff@icloud.com 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #thejoyofless #beyondexpectations #theanticipationtrap