{REPLAY} What To Do After We Mess Up (Rupture Repair)

Our kids don’t need us to be perfect.  Not only do they not need us to be perfect, it would actually be bad for them if we were.  In fact, research shows parents are in attunement with their children about 30% of the time.  30%!  That’s it!  When I teach, I often reassure parents that ⅓ of their interactions with their child are “getting it right.”  About ⅓ of the time they are “getting it wrong” (whatever that even means- we all have our own, valid definitions).  The rest? The remaining ⅓? Well ideally, the other ⅓ is spent in repair.  Read a summary of this episode and access the full show notes at: RobynGobbel.com/RuptureRepairOver on my website you can find:Masterclass and eBook on What Behavior Really Is (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being WithThe Club is opening for new members October 1-8, 2024.Read all about The Club at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub and sign up on the waiting list to be notified when it opens.  Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources!You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation!RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources :::Wondering where to start with all this information about behaviors and the nervous system?Subscribe to the START HERE podcast at RobynGobbel.com/StartHere :::::Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources