30: Fat Talk with Virginia Sole-Smith
Do you agree that we live in a world that equates body size with a person’s value? What is our society teaching our kids about fat, body size, and a person’s worth? If you experienced body-size shaming as you grew up, don’t you want to do a better job with your children? Parenting around these topics is not easy, and my guest today wrote a book to help us understand more. I’m excited for this conversation with Virginia Sole-Smith, author of Fat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture and host of the Burnt Toast podcast. Join us to learn more!
Show Highlights:
Why parents struggle with fears and concerns around their kids’ body sizes
Why the goal is to have kids who don’t feel anxious about their relationship with food
Why we need to think about health as MUCH more than a number on the scale
Why, to embrace body diversity, we need to challenge what we’ve been trained to think about health, beauty, and morality
How weight distribution matches up with “thin privilege” and anti-fat bias
How focusing too closely on our personal weight struggles causes us to reinforce and perpetuate fat bias in the world
How our children receive messaging around body types and sizes from healthcare providers, sports coaches, etc.
How to have healthy conversations with kids about bodies, fat, diets, etc.
Why parents need to give counter programming to the default settings our kids receive from society about topics such as body shaming and racism
Why Virginia included in her book a chapter called “Straight White Dads on Diets”
Resources:
Connect with Virginia Sole-Smith: Website, Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, Burnt Toast podcast, and Fat Talk book
Connect with KC: TikTok, Instagram, and Website
Get KC’s book, How to Keep House While Drowning
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30: Fat Talk with Virginia Sole-Smith