5 Harsh Lessons from Tinder Swindler | Disney Ideals & Avoiding Seduction

Wouldn't love be easy if we could all love, unconditionally? It gets tough & conditional when we experience some level of emotional attachment towards those who live in the world of avoidance & transaction.
Amongst Disney's propaganda, romanticised male ideals, and slick manufactured tactics that make you feel worthy... The most deadly of all to falling for men like the Swindler is our inherent nature to bypass the facts and get lost in our emotional attachment.
Men like the Swindler latch onto emotional targets.
Targets just like my past self, who once had a tendency to abandon themselves to gain the satisfaction of helping others.
Those who idealise escaping a deemed "unworthy" past for a dream with a person that was manipulated to exist.
Those who had an upbringing of neglect, who cling onto any scrap of affection.
Those who were praised for giving, and identified as the peace makers, internalise their experiences. They don't think to question red flags and bypass neglect, by only seeing the best in the other.
All of these traits are what make you a beautiful, sensitive being. But the truth is, in the wrong hands - or even right hands - only makes you the victim, who'll continually be chasing in life. You deserve to be protected, present, and loved unconditionally, but must first protect your vulnerability.
Now I don't want this to spoil your relationship to lead with vulnerability; for we must trust first, to ever build depth - but the only way to lead with an open heart is by having heightened awareness of malevolent men, and an ability to set firm boundaries despite your life-story, conditioning and potential feelings of guilt. You MUST, at the first sign, show no remorse at rejecting men who show no remorse in using you.
You deserve to play the game of love on your terms. Don't demonise men, riches or love, instead create a new association with it. Hold the energy, get crystal clarity on your desires, and tune in your intuition to finding someone who is wholesome.
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