ERP 437: How to Negotiate Opposing Perspectives in Relationship – An Interview with Jessica Myers-Adams

Do you find it difficult to negotiate differing perspectives without sacrificing your own identity or creating deeper rifts? How do we balance our own needs with those of our partner? How do we stay connected even when conflict arises? Relationships can be a delicate balancing act, where the yearning for closeness and the need for autonomy often collide, leaving couples in a state of disconnection and frustration. In this episode, we delve into this very dilemma, exploring the concept of becoming "relationship visionaries," emphasizing the importance of prioritizing the relationship's higher intention over individual desires. Through compelling stories, visual models, and actionable advice, you'll learn how to take turns, communicate effectively, and make decisions that foster intimacy and connection. By embodying these principles, you can navigate conflicts with greater understanding and kindness, ensuring a resilient and deeply satisfying partnership. Join us as we uncover the essence of successful relationships and offer tools to elevate your love life to new heights. Jessica Myers-Adams is a licensed clinical social worker and certified relationship coach and is an author and speaker whose words resonate with authenticity. Her widely acclaimed book, "What To Do When You Do Give a F*ck," has been hailed for its unabashed counsel on breathing life back into waning relationships. Through her coaching initiative, Couples Speak, Jessica has facilitated countless couples in healing fractured ties and revamping the love connection. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 8:29 The common struggle of balancing the desire for intimacy with the need for personal boundaries. 12:17 Mastering effective listening and embracing relationship vision. 24:21 Steps to negotiation, validation, and intimacy in relationships. 37:10 Cultivating curiosity and flexibility in relationship decision-making. 44:33 Explore resources and programs to enhance your relationship skills. Mentioned What to Do When You Do Give a F*CK (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication Connect with Jessica Myers-Adams Websites: couplesspeak.com Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084765327582 Instagram: instagram.com/jessicarelationshipvisionary LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jessica-myers-adams-865136134 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.