OPP 5-30-24

"My boyfriend and I just moved in together last weekend. I was unpacking yesterday when I found his ‘trophies’. If you don't know what that means, it means things he's kept from other women like bras, underwear and other things I can't mention. I laid his trophies out on the kitchen table so he would be sure to see them when he got home from work. He was shocked that I found them. I told him he needs to get rid of them. He looked confused. He says he doesn't want to get rid of his trophies because they are a part of his past. He says it's not a big deal and the same thing as keeping pictures of your exes. I disagree. I think trophies are much different than pictures. He said I'm insecure. Should guys be allowed to keep their trophies? Have I overstepped my bounds in telling him to get rid of his trophies?"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.