Coming Home to Self: A Conversation with Kachi

In this episode of Rich Queer Aunties, Christabel welcomes a special guest, their partner  Kachi, who shares their personal journey of self-discovery and healing. Kachi, an Igbo-American Nigerian artist and recovering engineer, delves into their transition from conforming to societal expectations to embracing their full, authentic self.
They discuss the influence of culture, family, and identity on their path, including the pivotal moments of moving to California, growing their facial hair, and exploring traditional Igbo spirituality.
The episode highlights the importance of living authentically, sustaining personal liberation, and the complexities of feeling connected yet different from one's community. Ideal for successful Black women seeking to navigate and embrace their true desires and identities.
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00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage
00:50 Meet Kachi: A Journey of Self-Discovery
01:23 The Importance of the Body in Healing
02:47 Kachi's Turning Point: Embracing Identity
04:19 Navigating Cultural Expectations and Identity
05:07 Rebellion and Self-Expression
06:39 Facing Family and Societal Pressures
07:22 The Catalyst for Change: Grad School and Beyond
10:47 Finding Independence and Self-Care
12:50 A Transformative Trip to Nigeria
32:55 Embracing Authenticity
33:23 Returning to the Motherland
34:28 Life in Oakland
37:07 Exploring Igbo Spirituality
39:20 Redefining Identity
43:31 Healing Through Community
49:59 Navigating Shame and Guilt
57:25 The Journey of Self-Discovery
01:02:31 A Heartfelt Conclusion