17: reclaiming the erotic

Today we are redefining and reimagining the Erotic. What is it, why is it so powerful, and how can we bring more of it into our lives? We will hear clips from Audre Lorde’s seminal essay, The Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power, as well as words of wisdom from adrienne maree brown, and Esther Perel. I hope this makes you feel enlivened, and invites more Erotic experiences into your life. I dream of a society rooted in aliveness instead of death, especially of the most marginalized. Let's dream together.

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Key quote from episode: 
“What makes you feel alive? Keep a note on your phone of moments, experiences, people, that enliven you"

Time stamps:
(00:00): Intro to The Erotic
(07:09): Intro to Audre Lorde 
(13:33): Esther Perel on the Erotic 
(17:17): What makes you feel alive? 
(19:10): Public parks as Erotic spaces 
(22:11): adrienne maree brown on Audre Lorde’s Uses of the Erotic
(22:55): Love & The Erotic ft. bell hooks
(33:66): Audre Lorde on how the Erotic functions in her life 
(36:30): Closing

Sources mentioned: 
Essay: Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power by Audre Lorde
Essay reading: Audre Lorde reads Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic As Power
Website: Adrienne maree brown
Book: Emergent Strategy by adrienne maree brown
Book: Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown
Book: All About Love by bell hooks
YouTube: What is Erotic Intelligence? (Mindvalley Talks) by Esther Perel
TED Talk: Rethinking infidelity by Esther Perel
Discussion: Reimagining Desire post on my Substack
Essays on porn by adrienne maree brown: Liberating Desire & The Pleasure Dome
TikTok: Follow Misako Envela @MisakoEnvela on YouTube and @misako_envela on TikTok

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