WWYBD?! Work-Travel Balance, Realities of Adulting, Leveraging Debt and Independence in Relationships

EP 197: In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share personal life updates, including Allison's recent move to Tulum and the challenges that come with it. They discuss cultural differences between American and Mexican living, the process of decluttering and organizing, and read listener peaks of the week.In the WWYBD part of the episode, we discuss various aspects of adult life, including navigating friendships, the challenges of post-college life, balancing work with travel, financial planning, rekindling old relationships, addressing inconsistencies in friendships, and finding a balance between independence and long-term relationships. We emphasize the importance of communication, planning, and self-discovery in achieving personal and relational goals.TAKEAWAYS:Allison shares her experience of moving to Tulum and the adjustments she's making.Cultural differences between American and Mexican living The importance of decluttering and organizing Friendship dynamics can change over time, and it's important to recognize that it's often not personal.Having hard conversations can lead to clarity in relationships.Jealousy in friendships can stem from personal desires and insecurities.It's essential to give friends space during difficult times, as they may need to focus on their own growth.Seeking clarity can prevent misunderstandings. Post-college life can feel overwhelming but is normal.Planning ahead is crucial for travel with a full-time job.Leveraging debt can lead to better financial opportunities.Rekindling old relationships can be rewarding.Addressing issues in friendships is necessary for growth.Independence in relationships requires trust and communication.Finding the right partner is key to balancing freedom and commitment.MENTIONS:One of Allison’s Favorite Books - The Four AgreementsEpisode with Bailey Seaton about Blood WorkAllison’s Boundaries Post on Lemon 8Allison’s Independence Post on LemonMikayla Jai (This and That Comment) - Her PodcastSPONSORS + DISCOUNTS: Get Shopify Point of Sale for your business! Shopify.com/ALREADYFRIENDS to get your $1 a month trial! Gaia Provides is responsibly creating products of the earth that provide a quality, holistic compliment to your pet's health and wellness regiment. Use code 'ALREADYFRIENDS' for 20% offSOCIAL LINKS:Already Friends Socials: Instagram, TikTokAllison's Socials: Instagram, TikTokCeara's Socials: Instagram, TikTokAlready Friends Patreon: $5/Month for Bonus EpisodesLet's be friends - Join the Already Friends FB GroupIf you enjoyed this episode, we would really really appreciate it if you left a rating and review on Apple Podcast / Spotify or share the show with a loved one. This helps us grow the show so that we can keep doing what we are doing. Thank you so much for the support!To sponsor our show, email hello@alreadyfriendspodcast.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Gaia Provides and use my code ALREADYFRIENDS for a great deal: www.gaiaprovides.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code ALREADYFRIENDS for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Shopify and use my code alreadyfriends for a great deal: www.shopify.com* Check out Shopify and use my code alreadyfriends for a great deal: www.shopify.com* Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code ALREADYFRIENDS at checkout.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy