148. How To Ask For Rough Sex

You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover:


Sexual communication basics

How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires

Navigating shame around sexual interests

How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner

How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried

How to make these conversations more fun



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