#166 Necessary endings

"Necessary Endings" is a self-help book written by Dr. Henry Cloud. It explores the concept of embracing and initiating endings in various aspects of life, such as relationships, careers, and personal growth, in order to create a positive and fulfilling future. The book emphasises that endings are a natural part of life and are necessary for personal and professional growth.  While endings are a natural part of business and life, we often experience them with a sense of hesitation, sadness, resignation, or regret. But Dr. Henry Cloud sees endings differently. He argues that our personal and professional lives can only improve to the degree that we can see endings as a necessary and strategic step to something better. If we cannot see endings in a positive light and execute them well, he asserts, the "better" will never come either in business growth or our personal lives. In this insightful and deeply empathetic book, Dr. Cloud demonstrates that, when executed well, "necessary endings" allow us to proactively correct the bad and the broken in our lives in order to make room for the professional and personal growth we seek. However, when endings are avoided or handled poorly—as is too often the case—good opportunities may be lost, and misery repeated. Drawing on years of experience as an executive coach and a psychologist, Dr. Cloud offers a mixture of advice and case studies to help readers Know when to have realistic hope and when to execute a necessary ending in a business, or with an individual. Identify which employees, projects, activities, and relationships are worth nurturing and which are not. Overcome people's resistance to change and create change that works. Create urgency and an action plan for what's important. Stop wasting resources needed for the things that really matter. Knowing when and how to let go when something, or someone, isn't working—a personal relationship, a job, or a business venture—is essential for happiness and success.  In this, the final episode of the Growth Whisperers podcast, we talk about the book necessary endings, our journey together, and why you should consider what endings are necessary in your life.  Thank you for listening, it's been an honour to help you. From Kevin and Brad. ----- * Do you love The Growth Whisperers and want to see our smiling faces? Subscribe to our YouTube channel. * Do you enjoy our content? Rate our show! * Is Twitter your thing? Follow @Evolution_Perth and @lawrenceandco1 to learn more about building enduring great companies. *Like LinkedIn? Follow https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradleygiles/ and https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachkevinlawrence/  --------- Links: *https://evolutionpartners.com.au/ *https://lawrenceandco.com/ Newsletters *https://evolutionpartners.com.au/articles *https://lawrenceandco.com/business-resources ----- Additional episodes you might enjoy: #84 The 7 common strategy mistakes from Michael Porter #130 Jim Collins: Level 5 leaders #104 The habits successful leaders use to prepare each week #50 Jim Collins Flywheel Concept: How to build unstoppable momentum in your company #96 The three main barriers to consistent growth #90 Meeting Rhythm - The Annual Strategic Thinking meeting #110 Five most common questions we get about Scaling Up #89 The 4 different types of A players