Being Authenic is spite of what others have to say

 if you are someone other than who you are definitely has its downsides! People are naturally attracted to those who are authentic – themselves! It just feels right.

Being real in a culture that favors fitting in may tempt you to pretend. Add to that the desire to belong or be perfect, and soon you are hiding yourself in big and small ways.

People Pleasers ? After all, their whole goal is to please others. They rarely say no, are
Remember, as a believer, you already have God’s approval and it is not based on your performance, 

Stop letting others control you



Trustworthy
Self-reflective and connected to their feelings
Able to make decisions
Not motivated by the need to please, gain acceptance, or get approval.
Transparent
Open to other perspectives
Consistent
Courageous